Needless to say, the genitals are made up of a great amount of sexually responsive tissues. Licking, stroking, rubbing and kissing of the genital area (esp. clitoris and vulva) are among the most stimulating sexual experiences for most women!
The Mons & Labia Lips
The MONS? You may be unfamiliar with this word, but it’s time to befriend it! The mons are the sensitive area above the genitals were the pubic hairs grows.
Any movement of the mons pubis transmits sensation to the rest of the genital area. Excite & please her by caressing the hair area or gently touching it. Grasp it or rest the heel of your hand on it while using the fingers on the labia; or cup the whole area (labia and mons pubis) in your palm and fingers.
Did you know? The clitoris has the same number of nerve endings as the penis! The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or, for the multi-talented Joe, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy.
However, few women enjoy excessive clitoral emphasis at the start of foreplay. Focus on other erogenous zones first. Experiment with positions to ensure that clitoral stimulation is optimum during intercourse.
Take care not to over-stimulate the highly sensitive clitoris – it may make the sensation “annoying” instead!
In the vagina, the G-spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search very worthwhile. The G-spot is a bean-shaped tissue located about one, two or even three inches up her vaginal wall. There’s no one standard location because it varies from one woman to the next.
Insert one or two fingers into the woman’s vagina. Once your finger is about a couple of inches within the vaginal opening, you can make a crooked motion with your finger which is pointing towards her belly button. Press down on the g spot each time your fingers pass back over it, and ask your partner to describe the pace at which she enjoys this motion the most.
Ladies, now that you know your pleasure zones inside out, its time to get truly acquainted with them. Look out for the next post on Tuesday, to learn more about self-pleasure!